Let them see that you trust them & let them solve their own problems, make their own decisions.Do that & they will commit their lives to you. Bully the, control them out of fear or malice or just for your own convenience, & after a while you'll have to spend all your time thinking for them, controlling them, & stifling their resentment.
I think a lot of psychopaths are just geniuses who drove so fast that they lost control.
They need foes so that they can justify the spending. The misuse of power. The curtail of liberty. Control. These so called, terror groups, always seem to come along at the right time. Misdirections are what make people think that they are seeing the truth. You can arm people with sticks, but not with knowledge or wisdom.
Among other possibilities, money was invented to make it possible for a foolish man to control wise men; a weak man, strong men; a child, old men; an ignorant man, knowledgeable men; and for a dwarf to control giants.
A man’s life is not qualified by how much wealth, power, pleasure or control he has, but by the values of godliness he possesses.