When you are angry try your best to go to sleep, it keeps you away from speaking, writing and thinking while you are angry.
Between the natural way and the path of grace there is a deep abyss. It is in that gap that we live our lives as a giant struggle between good and evil, Satan and God, despair and love. Whenever despair wins, it is the natural way. Whenever love wins, it is a moment of grace. When love is victorious and defeats despair completely, you've reached the path of grace.
Even if things aren't going the way we want right now, we will always get through it.