People would rather live in a community with unreasonable claims, than face loneliness with their truth
If you do not have control over your mouth, you will not have control over your future.
It hurts to let go, to say goodbye for the final time and remain distant in your closure, it may even tear your heart out to the point of insanity; but somehow in it all you find the pieces of your worth and you start creating yourself again, and in that journey of transformation you find the essence of what truly matters, inner happiness. It's life, we all fall at some stage but it's up to you, to decide how long you want to stay there.
Our abstract thoughts regarding matters of fact are rarely always absolute. Confidence in the truth often can be applied in varying degrees of acceptance. In other words, we can accept something as basically true with some lingering doubt.
Donβt blame yourself. You believed what he told you, because you trusted him. Youβre a warm, open, trusting person. And youβre trustworthy. Trustworthy people like us always get screwed, because we expect other people to be like us. Donβt let his bad behavior make you question yourself.
See the 'That' of What Is in all, and treat them accordingly - as the mirrored self of your soul. That is religion enough. The rest is but mumbo jumbo of lost souls.