Do your best, then chill. Thing happen as they will.
Understand what you hate. And you'll hate no more.
Do your best. Then, surrender to the Divine Will. And of course, chill. Things work as they will.
See the 'That' of What Is in all, and treat them accordingly - as the mirrored self of your soul. That is religion enough. The rest is but mumbo jumbo of lost souls.
Misfortune is also good fortune, in a way. It is relative. For, you get to know who truly are your friends, and who really are your true relatives.
If you love God but hate His people, well then, you're not the Lord's people.