If you do NOT see what You want to see in life, it is because of HOW you have been trained to look when you attended school. To succeed you only need to develop the ability to see what you WANT to see and NOT what others trained you to see.
I was trained as a straight dramatist.
I trained karate in 2001 to fight Heath Herring.
Managers are trained to make incremental, programmatic improvements. They aren't trained to lead large-scale change.
I trained at Juilliard so that I could do all kinds of genres, so that's what I'm trained to do.
My children have trained me well for multitasking.