One of the ways that people avoid taking...... Quote by "Iyanla Vanzant"

One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs - blame and projection.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: blame, responsibility, pain, people

Other Quotes by "Iyanla Vanzant"

The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: try, broken, forgiveness, life

In order to feel loved, be respected and stay connected, we humans have a tendency to lie. We lie about who we are, what we want, what we need, what we have done or will do. Perhaps 'lie' is too strong a word. Let me say that what we do is withhold the truth.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: loved, lie, me, truth

What will support any relationship is clear, complete and conscious conversations when upsets or breakdowns occur.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: clear, will, support, relationship

Any time there is 'un-forgiveness' between people who love each other, there is suffering. Any time people face challenges that they really don't understand... there is suffering.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: face, people, time, love

I have a daily message, 'Stimumail,' which I use to stimulate the mind and heart. I have the opportunity to touch over 60,000 people I have never met. I also use Twitter and Facebook.
— Iyanla Vanzant

Tags: opportunity, people, daily, heart