I never really mind what people say about me - I am far too unconventional and far too dedicated to being true to myself to let other people's disdain or nastiness upset me for long.
It's never as easy to keep your own spouse happy as it is to make someone else's spouse happy.
You must be independent and able to do for yourself. Then you do not have to marry a rich man; you can marry a poor one. And if it is wrong, you can go.
If you can fight directly with your mother, you can save a fortune in psychiatrist's bills.
My advice is not always so logical and consistent. But then, love is not logical and consistent. So why should my advice be? If you want that kind of thinking, go to a computer. Computers are always logical and consistent, and you see how often they get proposed to.
I am a horsewoman. I am a princess. I am Zsa Zsa.