A weed is but an unloved flower.
Don't let the tall weeds cast a shadow on the beautiful flowers in your garden.
Every relationship is like a garden and every garden has weeds. Arguments are the little weeds of our relationship that grow up around the things we intentionally plant. Some arguments donβt seem so bad and are easy to work around whenever they pop up. Others are ugly enough that you go nuclear on them. That patch of land is abandoned as scorched earth for a couple of years. Either way, the weeds always come back as reliably as the days and the seasons despite our attempt to get rid of them once and for all. This is true of the arguments we have but also the arguments we donβt have. Arguments donβt end because they have long, long roots.
If the weeds are removed and there is nothing planted, it is the weeds that will keep growing.
We have to devise ways to lower the cost of production and reduce the risks involved in agriculture such as pests, pathogens, and weeds.