How in the world are we supposed to engage life when we spend all of our life building walls to protect ourselves from the very thing that we say we want to engage? The answer is, I think, understanding that God doesn’t need walls but we need Him.
No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.
Lovers are not snails; they don't have to protrude from their shells and meet each other halfway. Meet me within your own self.