If you are not surprising yourself, you are not growing.
If you are paying someone to motivate you (seriously), you should rather pay to a psychiatrist.
Life is like the pages of a book. You are free to read any page of your choice but remember, your success or failure depends on the page you have read.
Nothing worthwhile can ever be achieved until a decision is made. You're in control of your decisions and your decisions are in control of your destiny.
You need to tolerate all manner of characters for your own good because, you cannot force people to change and even if you have to, you cannot change everyone.
No one cultivates in a stony-ground, instead he cultivates in a soft-rich ground. Do not expect people to invest in you if you're a lazy type.
