Tolerance is not learnt by sitting in silence in a cave. One can centre themselves by withdrawing; that is okay - But true tolerance comes from being peace amongst that which is contrastable to our own beliefs, ideas, thoughts and behaviour.
The biggest problem of a person who has no difficulty in ensuring his own happiness is this: The unhappiness of others! Because it is very difficult to maintain happiness among unhappiness!
It's better to be realistic and come out of the virtual world, social media pushups. The moment you do this. you will come to acknowledge the worthly connections of your life