You are not a victim. No matter what you have been through, you're still here. You may have been challenged, hurt, betrayed, beaten, and discouraged, but nothing has defeated you. You are still here! You have been delayed but not denied. You are not a victim, you are a victor. You have a history of victory.
If you can't beat them, arrange to have them beaten.
Gary Neville never seemed to know when he was beaten, and Ashley Cole never gets beaten.
Towering genius disdains a beaten path. It seeks regions hitherto unexplored.
Butter that is too warm won't aerate properly when beaten with sugar, leading to a decidedly un-fluffy result.
Anyone can be beaten. I don't think any team is unbeatable.
It's always a wake-up call to get beaten.