Sometimes you do have to bank on yourself. You do have to believe in your ideas enough to really get out there and fight for it despite what people think of some young kids from the hood.
I would say I'm voluptuous. Statuesque. Definitely curvaceous.
My mom will make me walk the dogs or take out the trash when I go home.
To me, I always felt like I was carrying a torch for women of any size to be themselves - it doesn't matter whether you're a size 2 or a 22, just be who you are.
If I ran into a 19-year-old version of myself, I'd just tell her to live, full out. I might also tell her to go ahead and have a few babies and not worry about the timing of it.
Look at people for an example, but then make sure to do things your way. Surround yourself with positive people.