One of the dark truths about dictators - and it applies to Gaddafi - is that on some level, they love their people. But it is a strange love. It says, 'I love you for me; I don't love you for you.' That rhymes with a certain kind of Libyan father who was always certain about what was good for those around him. Those fathers lose in the end.
Tags: you, me, good, love

Other Quotes by "Hisham Matar"

I am, by instinct, wary of revolutions. The gathering of the masses fills me with trepidation.
Tags: instinct, gathering, i-am, me
Language is not just a code; you are writing into its history, into its tides.
Tags: writing, language, you, history
I used to believe that it was not possible to lose someone I loved without sensing it somehow, without feeling something shift. But it's not true. People can die, sometimes the closest people to us, without us noticing a thing.
Tags: die, feeling, believe, people
I admire Turgenev, Camus, Proust and Shakespeare, but I've also learnt a lot about writing from composers and artists.
Tags: composers, about, admire, writing
Growing up in the Libya of the 1970s, I remember the prevalence of local bands who were as much influenced by Arabic musical traditions as by the Rolling Stones or the Beatles. But the project of 'Arabisation' soon got to them, too, and western musical instruments were declared forbidden as 'instruments of imperialism.'
Tags: imperialism, who, growing-up, remember
View More by "Hisham Matar"