Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over.
Straight people are everywhere!
I am not an idiot, and I'm not a Pollyanna sort of kumbaya type.
A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.
Men were never expected to be monogamous.
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.