Tolerance is not learnt by sitting in silence in a cave. One can centre themselves by withdrawing; that is okay - But true tolerance comes from being peace amongst that which is contrastable to our own beliefs, ideas, thoughts and behaviour.
Shine your soul with the same egoless humility as the rainbow and no matter where you go in this world or the next, love will find you, attend you, and bless you.
A balanced inner calmness radiates from a peaceful centre. It neither craves others' approval nor rejects others' presence. It neither pulls towards nor pushes away. It has a reverent attitude towards life and all its inhabitants.