Quotes Tagged "life-lessons"

A wise man listens to gain knowledge and not to debate.

Being a great leader requires several attributes. Leadership includes both rewarding and difficult attributes. You must possess the strength to make tough decisions that may isolate you for a period. And yet, have empathy and understanding of others. You must be able to listen to alternatives regarding your decisions and seriously consider them. If you practice from both a standpoint of strength and compassion, people may not always agree with your decisions, but they will respect you. RJ Intindola – 1981

No one can penetrate silence; they can only interpret what is said. However, silence will create an abundance of speculative suppositions.

While you can see the beauty in almost everything; there are others that see nothing but ugliness in the world. They disparage everything and one must wonder, do they find pleasure in condemnation.

Our moral code is constantly evolving; it’s impacted by the betrayers, masters of deceit, and the pseudo-truth tellers among us, even those we love.

Some are forever shackled by worship and cannot be easily rescued RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1980

To lovers out there…. Seek you shall find.Some people are looking for mistakes in a relationship rather than looking for love and happiness. Some are even looking for mistakes of their previous relationship in the current one. They accuse the current partner and they make them suffer and to be punished for the things they know nothing about.

Don’t get married to please people, but get married because you are pleased by your partner.

The best captains endure the most turbulence and greatest storms. RJ Intindola – 1990

I evaluate friendship based on never uttering secret words I’ve spoken.

Disassociate with people that criticize you. Avoid them at all costs and act indifferent in their presence. At some point they may ask you what’s wrong, and you need to speak the truth. RJ Intindola – 1979

People that complain often are usually trying to get attention. The stems from the fact they’re displeased with their accomplishments and think the lack of same is the fault of others.

Each time our heart is broken, we should learn a lesson and not repeat the same mistakes. However, often there is nothing we could have done to save the relationship.

To lovers out there... Most people look for marriage before they find the right partner. Instead of finding a right partner first, that will make them want to get married . That is why most marriages don’t work out. People just want to get married and they don't care whom they marry or how they feel about the person who marries them.

Intuition is like a compass that guides your decision-making process when answers are not readily available.

To lovers out there…. If you don’t make any means or efforts in pleasing, spoiling and satisfying your partner. When someone comes and does that to them. Your partner is going to leave you like they never loved you.

When struggling through a relationship crisis, every other aspect of your life becomes a battle.

Whites are very good in protecting each other and blacks are very good in destroying each other.

Some people can't congratulate you for your success , because they are waiting to celebrate your downfall.

To lovers out there …. Self love is more important than any love. If you don’t love yourself .It becomes difficult for your partner to love you too.