Easily mistaken, it is not about a love for adversity, it is about knowing a strength and a faith so great that adversity, in all its adverse manifestations, hardly even exists.
The only way you're going to reach places you've never gone is if you trust God's direction to do things you've never done.
Do not come into agreement with fear. Activate your faith, live in victory, speak over your life and expect great things to come your way.