If you don't quit, and don't cheat, and don't run home when trouble arrives, you can only win.
Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone?
I'm a real 'go, go' person... I'd make myself crazy by pushing too hard. It's important to pull pack the reins a little bit and get in touch with what's inside.
I don't believe in predestination, even though I was raised a Presbyterian.