Part of love is preparing for death. You feel confirmed in your love when she dies. You got it right. This is part of it all.
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In 1980, I published my first novel, in the usual swirl of unjustified hope and justified anxiety.
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I was initially planning to write about grief in terms of Eurydice and the myth thereof. By that point the overall metaphor of height and depth and flat and falling and rising was coming into being in my mind.
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I have an instinct for survival, for self-preservation.
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Reading and life are not separate but symbiotic. And for this serious task of imaginative discovery and self-discovery, there is and remains one perfect symbol: the printed book.
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When you read a great book, you don't escape from life, you plunge deeper into it.
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