You need to be competitive, but a lot of that you can internalize and use that as motivation to drive you. You do not need to show it all the time.
I've learned I can't change every opinion or have everyone's approval. If I get caught up in that, I'm worried about the wrong things.
The best thing - I say it all the time - what happened at Oklahoma was sitting for a year after I transferred. To sit there and be able to focus on the physical parts of my body. You know, develop, and then the mental side of the game, learning.
Not everybody responds to yelling at 'em or jumping all over 'em. Sometimes you need to put your arm around somebody and encourage them.
I've always been a guy to keep positive energy on the sideline.
My dad thinks I have a photographic memory.